Ben

Sorry I haven't blogged in for ever but I just been so busy and I don't even remember when I last saw a computer! Well allot of things happened to me last week. I got a call a 3 in the moring. Its was my mom she called to tell me that my uncle Ben died. Well at first I was surprised there were 3 people living in that house. Aunt Jacky who is in perfect health,Grandma actually shes my great grandma who doesn't even have the slightest clue on what day it is and is turning 97 soon and Ben who was just weight but not much. That just took me by surprise that it would be him over grandma. I didn't know the family well they live out in the country and I never talk to them much. But I knew them well enough to got to the visitation and the funeral. Well for most of the reception I talked with my cousins Jesse,Amy,Mary,Jen and Paul who is in the air force and came in from Europe just for Ben he was in his uniform and to see him cry in his uniform just broke my heart. Towards the end Jesse who I drove with told me to get outta here quick or we might get suck taking Grandma home. So when we got out to the car he left the lights on for the funeral and forgot to turn them off and his battery went dead. So guess who got suck taking home grandma?Us. Well that's how I got suck with Jacky she cried and cried on my shoulder and told me how hard it was. So I said I would stay with her a few days. I mean it was the least I could do. Right? Well taking care of Grandma was ok, all I did was feed her and listen to her crazy talk.Jacky I felt like I was going to cry every time she talked about Ben. they were my great aunt and uncle. They were going to be married 60 years next month. Well the next day I said I wouldgo out and get us lunch. She was calm and collective. But I came back to her house grandma was on the porch. I gave her her food and her reply was thak you Wendy. I started a her for a breif moment and went on theres no even a wendy in the family. But then again I cant remember the last time she actally said something sane. so I ignored it. As open the door I heard her old recored player blasting Patsy Clines Crazy. I loooked around the house. I finally found her up in her room huddled under the covers with old black and white pictures of her and Ben all on the floor in the bed...everywhere..I just sat down next to her.I noticedshe was wearing his wedding ring.

Jacky: Im lonley.
Me: Its okay,I am always here for you even after I leave.
Jacky: Any tips?
Me:Its okay it will get better. The feeling will never go away but itll get better. I promise,
Jacky: It just hurts.

By this time were both crying.And thats what we did for the rest of the night the next morning I left. But Jacky gave me her cat. I took the cat. But guys I cant take care of this cat. I was wonder if Jenna wanted it?Since she had to give the dog away? Or if somone else wants they can have it I just want to make sure it goes to a good home.

Suprise for Jenna AND me

We planned a suprise party for Jenna for her 20th birthday.I told Justin the day of because he can NOT keep a secret. I called him told him to pick up some dererations and told him to come 2 hours before everyone else came to set up. He came 30 mins before the guest were supposed to come. Anyways when he got there I gave him stickers I bought and told him to spell Happy Birthday with them.I went to go pick up the cake I ordered.When I got back alot of the dererations were up. Then I walked by the wall and saw he had put Hapy Berthday on the wall. I took down and rearanged the stickers so they said Happy Birthday. Everything was perfect :). Then people started arriveing Marcia,Maddie and some of Jennas other friends.When everyone was there I call told everyone to be quiet. It took Justin about 10 minutes just to shut up.I called her I had told her earlier that I would take her to the movies for her birthday I told her that my car wouldnt start and I needed her to pick me up. She told me she was 10 mins away. Everyone hid behind furniter. i guess Justin got a little to exicted and everyother minute would jump out and yell suprise! And when it was actually time when everyone else jumped out he stayed hidden behind the chair.Later Kitkat walked in and was talking with Marcia it wasent good whatever was going on. I stayed out of it I hate fights always have. But you could tell Justin was spying it was funny how stupid he looked. Just when he was listening in on thier conversation Maddie random walked up and started making out with him! He pushed her away he told me a couple days before how she was alot more annoying then he remembers.
Justin:I am already dateing someone!
Maddie:Who?
Justin:Cherry!
What?!?! Justin kept on looking at me. I knew he wanted me to say the I was dateing him to get out of the whole thing with Maddie I was so stupid to agree I didnt know why. I really regret it.
Maddie:Prove it.
Justin kissed me. Maddie walked out I could tell some people were stareing. I was going to KILL him after the party. But I quickly just shouted who wants cake?Some people shouted me. I cut out the cake and later everyone left.I said justin stay. I made sure he did.
Cherry:What were you thinking?!?!?
JUstin:That I wouldnt have to make out with Maddie.
Cherry:What am I supposed to do?
Justin:Fake date me?
We fought as we took the decerations down and I finally just gave in fine I said. Now I am realizeing how stupid I was.How am I supposed to get out of this?

This means war!

Ok if you read Justin's blog about the pranks my prank was not as dramatic as he says.(lol he likes to exaggerate) Well anyway when I got home my house was really cold...My house was 10 degrees!So I turned on the heat and read Justin's blog.(nice prank Justin)Well I mean its sounds like a wimpy prank which it is but I am gonna be mad when I get my bill for that one.O and Justin, You picked my lock?Creepy much? Well anyway I got a new better idea and Justin I am not gonna blog about it until AFTER it happens so you wont know about it.And it includes glue....and allot of it!So I am officially declaring war! Go team Cherry!

A day out with Justin and Jenna

The phone rang at 8:00am. Its was Justin so I picked it up.

Me: Justin? What is it?
Justin: Wanna go bowling?
Me: Bowling?Its 8:00.
Justin: Did I wake you up?
Me:Yes.....
Justin: Well not now.later Jenna Will be there. She will be sad if you say no.
Me: Okay...Fine.
Justin: Thanks.
Me: Bye.

The Phone line went dead.I couldn't go back to sleep(thanks Justin)So I took a shower and got dressed. I put on a pair of jeans and a black and white shirt.I didn't feel like dressing up that much. And it was just bowling anyway.Justin honked his horn as he pulled into my driveway. i grabbed my purse and got into the backseat with Jenna.She is pretty nice. And of course the whole way there Justin and Jenna fought.

Well while we were there for some reason things got real Competitive REAL fast.Jenna beating both of us almost every time. Justin won once. And of course they had to fight about THAT to.

After awhile we decided we wanted to leave so we did.And on our way out Jenna yelled bet your not as fast as me! Running ahead of us. Justin just stayed at his walking pace and said I bet your right.Jenna was already in the car when Justin started acting weird.

Me: What?
Justin: Walk faster.
Me: Whats going on?

I quickly turned around and saw no one was behind us.Right when I turned back around the only thing I remember was two guys standing in front of us and they grabbed my purse.I looked over at Justin who was fighting another guy then I felt something hard hit me. I got dizzy and everything went black.

I woke up in my bed. I couldn't remember what happened. I called Justin he told me that a couple of guys mugged us. he also said we didn't know who they were or if we would get our stuff back. They took my purse and Justin's wallet. Then I remembered everything was in that purse my phone my wallet...everything. I got a headache took some Advil and went back to sleep.

Thanks Marcia

Ever since my house caught on fire I have been staying with my best friend Marcia. She recently came back to Tulsa. I had almost forgotten how much fun we had together! Hanging out with each other was just like old times again! I love her so much I am kinda sad I will be leaving soon. But I am also glad that my house is finally coming back together. Oh and I met Justin's sister Jenna the other day. She seems to be really nice. Well at least for the the few minutes we talked when Justin introduced us.(Justin says she odd but it seems that Jenna is WAY more normal.)In a good kind of way Justin.:P. O and I finally got my profile picture up!!!*Happy Dance* Well okay I think that's about it........BYE!!!!:):):):):)

Why Me???

Today really sucked! First of all I ran out of shampoo so my hair looked HORRIBLE! At lunch I stained my favorite shirt.:( And my computer was being really slow AGAIN. I finally just decided to take a walk to forget about this horrible day. And of course on my way back it rained. And to complete this wonderful day as I was walking home in the rain drenched I saw my house was on fire! I went next door and called 911. The firemen set off the fire but almost everything in my room is ruined or ash.Okay I'm not trying to complain but my house caught on fire! that's as reason to complain right?!?

Wheres my profile pic?

Okay my computer has been acting up lately and stuff and this really sucks! But I think I finally fixed it.(knock on wood) But I kinda new here and all and I don't really know that many people. or met really anybody yet. Oh yeah I need a job so if there is any please tell me. Yeah and for some reason my profile pic wont show up and I am still trying to figure that out to. Wow this blog is really random. But I am not really sure what to say...umm...Bye.